Wednesday, November 11, 2020

November 11, 1938


To my father Norris and his brother Tom and sister Judy.

To my cousins Kenny, Andy, Alicia and Eric.

To my sisters Julie, Tammy, Debbie.

To the next generation, Jacob, Justin, Cooper, Login, Taylor, Grace, Olivia, Kelsey, Dani, Jami, Shayla, Jessie, Owen, Adam, and Ian

To the most recent generation,  Lilah May, Katherine Alice, Connor, Ethan, Ariella, Addalyn, Kira, and Alayna.  Unfortunately you missed out on the treasure the rest of us had the privilege of enjoying. Ask your parents and grandparent about it and they will have many stories to tell.

To all of us listed above our Journey has been wide and varied. We span from California to Texas, from Alabama to Maine.

Our combined journey began 82 years ago on this day November 11, 1938.

On that day, Alice Elizabeth Stevens said “I do” to Arnold G Smith in Canton Maine.

Their love was an example for us all as it never waned or showed any sign of weakness for 65 years. 

For 65 years they were united and watched in joy as their family grew.

Gramp left us on July 8, 2003,  leaving Grams side for the last time.

Gram lasted only 4 more years before she joined Gramp and again they were together.

I know he is eating apples and cheese and she is knitting a pair of liners to go inside leather mittens.

They are sitting side by side rocking yet saying very little, simply enjoying the fruits of their love and all that it has become.  We miss you both!





Tuesday, November 3, 2020

 Katherine Alice Smith

She stumbles around the house at a pace and with a stagger that would seem destined for disaster. 

She darts from place to place, object to object in what appears to be a random display of hap hazard choices and yet each direction, each mission has a purpose and a goal.

She may pause only a moment to look at something or to touch something and then be on her way, but each tangent has a purpose, each direction has a goal. Once that goal is achieved it’s on to the next.

She has a sense of exploration that drives her every step, what is that? What does that feel like? Can I eat that? Does it move when I try to push it? Does it make noise?

She scurries around at a pace that would tire an Olympic marathon runner and yet she seemingly never slows.

At 16 months old she knows every inch of her home, at least the part she is allowed to explore. And yet every day begins a new mission to find something new or find the changes.

Move a chair and she will notice, take a box away and she looks around trying to see where it went. She is keenly aware of her surroundings.

She loves books and has many.  What was once a patient journey  through each book as someone turned the pages and read to her,  has now become a self-guided tour that quickly scans through each page with little hesitation as though simply checking to make sure no pages are missing.

The pets all know her antics and some give space to her as she meanders about, while others lay waiting for the eventual collision as though wanting and looking forward to the interaction.

Her world is hers to orchestrate and she does!

Our role is to support and help her when needed. Any failure in that support will be addressed immediately and adherence to the plan is expected!

She is also very helpful around the house! She loves to help with dishes, throwing her dirty diapers in the trash and finding ANYTHING you may have dropped on the floor by accident. 

 And cheese. The girl loves cheese!

Eating is a pleasure to be enjoyed to the fullest! All forms of vegetables, meats, grains, and muffins are greeted with enthusiasm and anticipation.

Messes while eating are never frowned upon and always encouraged! Cleanup is just a bath away.

Feel the texture of that squash between your fingers. Smoooooth!  How does it look on my face?? 

Squish the muffin to find out what those little bits inside are, not sure but they sure taste good!

She is being raised in a home that values exploration and discovery. 

A home that is not afraid of getting a little messy for the sake of a good meal or a good adventure!

A home that requires kindness, manners, and compassion for other as a nonnegotiable expectation.

And most importantly a home filled with love and acceptance.

What more could a grandpa wish for!